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I know this is an old thread but I'm bumping it lol. I'm not even old enough to even think about having kids yet, and I'm not even quite sure I want any when the time comes tbh. But @LeoChris, yes that would surely be an advantage on your side, but have you ever thought about the fact that your child may someday look at you and may sometimes secretly resent you for the disadvantages that you've given them for being part black period? Even if they're light. Just a thought... I have some mixed friends who struggled with this when they were younger
I don't think any skin tone makes anyone more or less attractive or more or less successful in life. So its doesn't matter.
No, NO, NO ! lol, I have a certain kind of disgust for people who do this. You should have kids with someone because you love that person, not because you want light skin children. Ive heard women say this and two years later I see them with their mixed kids and i cant help but think i would feel so used and betrayed if i was a white man and a black woman was preying on me for light skin kids. That being said, I do understand Preference, I am open to all races but I do prefer Black women so obviously my kids would come out black, But I am also more than happy with having mixed kids but you should not go in to a relationship with the hidden agenda of mixed kids. That is my opinion and that is the most humane mentality to have and i would hope others shared it. Its about LOVE not skin color.
i will love my child no matter what colour she/he will be. I am black and I want to be with a black man (ofc it dosen'T mean i wouldn'T date other races)however this world is very superficial and it's hard to be a black woman especially a dark skin woman. Sometimes i feel like like I want to have light kids .. so they won't have to face the same rejection/racism/discrimination I did ...... but not because i think lighter babies are cuter or whatever ...