I've figured it out! I still get a tiny bit frizzy but it's much, much less. My main problem was that I used too much shampoo...even though i have a LOT of hair all i really need is a little blob. Then I use MATRIX Biolage Conditioning Balm, rinse it out, get out of the shower, and put in some more Matrix, massage it through my hair, and leave it there.
Anyone else with hair that has a tendency toward dryness and frizz should try this!!