I agree the clean and clear blotting sheets. Milk of mag can be nice too....use sparingly. Another is Personalizer by Arbonnne. Oh another is called Teazone by DermaDoctor....very nice!
Or get this....a good primer to help control shine and lesson the look of pore size....MONISTAT Anti Chaffing Gel. Don't ask me who or why someone tried this. I don't even want to know - LOL. But if you look at the ingrediants they are the same as Laura Merciers and Smashbox Primers.....weird huh....but man is it nice! Gives a very smooth velvet finish to prime your skin before foundation....or sometimes I'll even just wear it without makeup. You should try it, it's much cheaper than department store brands.