Hi Help and welcome!!
Well to begin with, you have those male hormones which make the skin tougher and thicker than female skin. But you can still have the best possible skin with the basics:
Skin Care Basics
Avoiding sun exposure is the best thing you can do for your skin to maintain softness! Compare the skin on your butt (which USUALLY hasn't seen much sun!) with that of your face - different, huh! SUNSCREEN with high SPF and PPD is important as well as avoidance!
Gentle exfoliation with a microfiber cloth (NCNProSkincare.com sells the best ones)
Retinol or Retin-A for rapid turnover of the skin cells and collagen production.
Vitamin C serum topically to enhance retinol/retin-a and protect against damage by oxidants.
Whatever moisturizer you prefer if you prefer to use one. Everyone has a favorite and the fun is in finding what you like! Dr Hauschka makes products that are holistic and are suitable for any gender.
Basic good health measures like no smoking! enough sleep and plenty of water and fresh air, as well as a balanced diet free of oxidants like sugar, white flour, and greasy fried foods. Pick meat (unless yu are vegan) that is free from hormones and antibiotics! The hormones they feed to cattle to fatten them for slaughter go right into your body with every bite of Big Mac or steak!
If you are young, start on facial exercise and massage and you will keep that freshness!
I hope this might help you in some small way!