If you’re trying to change your phenotype plastic surgery along with skin lightening is something to consider. Personally haven’t done it or been interested but I’ve seen a lot of black people and Asians change their racial look completely with surgery. Things like nose jobs, chin surgery, fillers, etc. tend to give a more racially ambiguous phenotype along with lightening. A friend of mine had a nose job and she went from looking black to looking Hispanic. I’ve also seen whole influencers who changed their appearance from afro-latina to asian with surgery and skin lightening. Personally I think feeling comfortable in your own race is important but if you want social privileges I understand. Surgery + Lightening + Texturizing or Relaxing the hair.