hhhmmmm..... vtoodler, what kind of products do you use? meaning what brand and do you do it yourself or go to the salon? Trust me I know about dry hair. Even though I'm mixed and have a good grade of hair, I prefer it straight than frizzy all over. So therefore, I do. relax my hair. I also, bleach it and not those brassy orange "wanna-b" blondes. It's very blonde, probably a Level 10-12 on a hair chart thingy. So I do know about dryness. I also take good care of my hair. Although I don't wrap it up at night and I wash often. But I use very good products especially formulated for my hair and I use what works.